Looking back on my life, being able to be the mother of He Bufan is my luck.

I remember when I just got married, my mother asked me why I didn't want to have children.

At that time, she nagged in my ears every day, "Having children is for old age security. A family is not complete without children.

"If you don't have a child now, your husband won't want you later. Let's see how you deal with it."

"If you don't have a child now, you'll regret it and won't be able to have one in the future. No one will even bury your corpse when you're old and dead."

I was really annoyed by her nagging, so I played dumb:

"I never said I don't want to have children. Look, if I could have a son who comes with savings and is sensible from birth, I would have ten of them!"

"If raising a child means the child will take care of me, I will definitely have one. I will have one immediately, right away."

That's how I answered her at that time.

Later, I also said:

"I am afraid of the pain of pregnancy and the irreversible damage it brings to my body."

"I am afraid that after having a child, the quality of my life will deteriorate, and I am afraid that my efforts will be taken for granted by others."

"I am afraid that my child will be born into this world, fragile, weak, and subjected to harm and various unfair treatments. But I am even more afraid that they will become a bad person who causes harm to others."

But fortunately, He Bufan is obedient and sensible, and he grew up to be a silly big guy who can eat three bowls of rice.

He even comes with a 50 million yuan living allowance.

I hope every mother can give birth to an obedient, sensible, healthy and safe child.